hey ,
have you ever caught yourself saying, “but they’re so nice!” while trying to figure out why you don’t want to see someone again? (and yes, we're talking about both romantic and platonic "someones"!)
you keep reminding yourself how sweet they are, but you're still not excited to see them again. then you feel bad for not being excited.
it gets especially confusing when you’ve been wanting more friends or hoping to date someone. now there’s a nice person asking to hang out, and you’re wondering whether saying no means you’re being too picky.
this week’s blog is about figuring out what’s behind that hesitation. would you want to see them if making plans were easier, or if you knew they liked you? or are you mostly worried about disappointing them?
we’ve got some questions to help you sort that out before you text “yes, sounds great!” and then immediately hope they cancel.