Rebecca Kochenderfer

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The Great Benefits of Inner Work

, I recently discovered this anonymous posting and it’s brilliant…



“You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your arm, making you spill your coffee everywhere.


Why did you spill the coffee? “Because someone bumped into me!” Wrong answer. 


You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup. Had there been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea. 


Whatever is inside the cup is what will spill out. 


Therefore, when life comes along and shakes you (which WILL happen), 

whatever is inside you will come out. It’s easy to fake it, until you get rattled. 


So we have to ask ourselves… What’s in my cup? 


When life gets tough, what spills over? 

Joy, gratitude, peace, and kindness? 

Anger, bitterness, victim mentality, and quitting tendencies? 


Life provides the cup, you choose how to fill it.”

 

 

This is the great benefit of Inner Work — it determines what’s in our cup. By practicing mindfulness, we see what’s in our cup and what triggers us. Practicing compassion, we heal our wounds and release them from our cup. And using the Power of Intention, we decide ahead of time the type of person we are going to be and how we are going to respond, when Life bumps our elbow. What do you want to put in your cup? How can you practice that quality today?


This is Rebecca Kochenderfer with Journaling.com, wishing you happy and powerful cup-filling.



P.S. Here are some resources for you to check out.


The 5 Paths of Journaling (podcast)

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-power-of-journaling/id1550538439?i=1000568573934


How to Start Travel Journaling (blog interview with expert Lauren Hooper)

https://journaling.com/how-to-get-started-travel-journaling-with-lauren-hooper/


Inner Work: What’s in Your Cup? (podcast)

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-power-of-journaling/id1550538439?i=1000612487309



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